Friday 6 June 2014

How to make anyone fall in love with you

How to make anyone fall in love with you

We fall in love when we meet people who meet the criteria we have In our subconscious minds which was formed as a result of our past experiences, the way we were raised and the life events we faced. (see The psychology of falling in love for more information on that topic).
However most psychologists nowadays talk about a new fact which is that love can hardly happen if there were no physical attraction in the beginning of the relationship.
This means that being attractive, at least according to the standards of the person you are trying to attract, is an essential ingredient for love to happen and even if all the criteria was met love cannot happen without physical attraction. (see Why we Find certain people Attractive

You can increase your attractiveness levels!!

So is it possible to make anyone fall in love with you?
Based on these theories and on what psychologists said, it’s only possible to make those who are physically attracted to you fall in love with you but not other people.
While I agree with the psychologists in their points still I don’t agree with the way most of people look at these findings. A normal person would read the previous lines then say “Oh , I don’t have a chance” but the truth is that your own levels of attractiveness can be changed and thus your chance of making someone fall in love with you can be increased !!
It was found that smiling, being more confident and assertive can increase your overall attractiveness. Moreover, in my book How to make someone fall in love with you I even explained how your overall perceived attractiveness can increase if members of the other sex noticed that you are demanded.
A research found that women find a man more attractive if they saw other women smiling at him!! (see What attracts women). So in short your overall attractiveness can be increased which in turn can allow you to make certain people fall in love with you even those who weren't previously interested in you.

You are interesting = you are attractive

The good news is that if someone finds you interesting then there is a very big possibility that he finds you attractive too.
When we say that someone is boring we actually mean that we don’t experience any kind of excitement when being with him and when say that someone is interesting we actually mean that certain hormones are flowing in our bodies that make us feel excited because of his presence.
In most cases being described as interesting means that you have managed to trigger excitement hormones in other people or In other words, you were labeled “Attractive” by this person who found you interesting.
There are lots of techniques that can help you make people fall in love with you, combine them with the techniques that make you more attractive and making anyone fall in love with you won’t be a hard task.

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